My “friends” are using me and i don’t know how to stand my ground?
Ok so for starters I’m a self made 20 yr old female. Moved out of the house at 18 with nothing and grew to having my own apartment with a fabulous job and my doggo and paying my way through school. Buying my own car making my bills on time.. like normal adult stuff. So i met my “best friend” like 2 months ago and we had to them go into isolation together because she lived with her parents and we both were around Someone who had got tested positive for COVID. She lives with her parents and so does our other friend which she was in a relationship with so i just told them to stay at my apartment for 2 weeks it’s no big. Thinnkimg they would buy their own food and not eat all mime or ask me for money everyday. But no 2 weeks passed and I’m completely drained of money and my friend is mad because she spent her whole Walgreens paycheck of 250$ when that is just my car payment right there. I spent x5 that. Not to mention they both sleep on my couch and took my mattress pad because it was uncomfy. They have sex all the time. They use up all my hot water. The last straw was that i took them to my boyfriends house for the 4th and his parents were here and he was doing fireworks and they were so disrespectful all night and taking drugs.. like they are both Older than me. I was rly drunk and stood my ground but I’m being walked all over on right? There’s so much more to.. last night we are an hour away & my friend had the audacity to tell me she would drive MY car back home at 1am
- Alan HLv 7hace 1 mes
You are hardly self made if two weeks has used u your resources.
and YOI inviteed them!
- Anónimohace 1 mes
Oh look. It's you again.
Go back under your bridge, troll.
- MerryLv 7hace 1 mes
These people are not your friend.
Whilst I suspect that getting them to leave won't be as easy as it sounds, the only question that really needs answering is..... Why are they still living with you?