My man and me are in a long distance relationship. He lives with his brother over there.
On his last visit here (he comes to visit me every once in a while), i saw a suspicious txt msg on his phone. It was supposedly from a guy, but the text itself revealed it was a woman who wrote it. It said something about her not being able to make it, like he called her to see each other. I found out this number belongs to a girl that his brother has been dating, not exclusively, but they hook up whenever they're in the same city.
I don't know what to think about this. I always had the feeling (back when they both lived here) that my man had a thing for his brother's girl. I don't get why he would have her number under a guy's name. His brother has my number and it's not a big deal. Also, i don't know why on his visit here he would want to see this girl, he supposedly doesn't like her (he's said so), and why he wouldn't tell me if he wanted to see her regarding something about his brother or whatever... He does tell me about other girl-friends he wants to see when he's here.
At first when i saw the number, i didn't know it belonged to her. It made no sense that he would try to hide a girls number using a guys name from me, being that we barely see each other, i don't have that much access to his phones anyway. But his brother does. So i guess this whole thing was to hide it from him, not so much from me.
Do you think he cheated or wanted to cheat or something? I know he waited until the last day to contact her and she seemed upset about that.